Be the person who cares

Be the person who makes the effort,

the person who loves without hesitation.

Be the person who bares it all,

the person who never shies away from the depth of their feeling,

or the intensity of their hope. Be the person who believes —

in the softness of the world,

in the goodness of other people,

in the beauty of being open and untethered and trusting.
Be the person who takes the chance, who refuses to hide.

Be the person who makes people feel seen,

the person who shows up. Trust me when I say — be the person who cares.

Because the world doesn't need any more carelessness,

any more disregard;

because there is nothing stronger than someone

who continues to stay soft in a world that hasn't

always been kind to them.

~ Bianca Sparacino

i hope...

                                         

 

 

 

Never marry from these 4 families...

“You must always be clear-headed when choosing a life partner. No matter your age, or what others say, don’t rush into marriage. If you want to be happy, never marry a man or woman from these four types of families, or you’ll end up hurting yourself.” First, a family with a BAD REPUTATION. Second, a family where parents intervene TOO MUCH in their children’s lives, and the children can’t make their own decisions. Third, a family that values material wealth and loves to FLAUNT for PRIDE. Fourth, a family that FREQUENTLY ARGUES and has conflicts among relatives and siblings. Therefore, sons and daughters must understand that parents, having more life experience, often have a deeper understanding of marriage and life. It’s important to consult with them when choosing a life partner, but you must also be able to discern right from wrong, as the final decision is in your hands, and your happiness depends on you.

If I could give you one piece of advice to hold in your heart,

it would be to appreciate every second you have with the things that you love; be they places, objects, or people....

Because there is a last time for everything and you don't always know that it's the last time when you're in it.

There will be a last time you see a sunrise,

a last time you taste ice-cream and a last time you smell a rose.

There will be a last time you enter every room,

a last time you hold every pet,

and a last time you hear a loved one's voice.

Sometimes we know we're in those moments

and we can savour every second of them -

but so often we don't know until that moment is gone

and it's too late to go back and relive it.

So hold onto those moments while you have them....

live inside them.... appreciate them to their fullest every time

so you'll never regret taking them for granted one day when they're gone.